By Jim Hall MS, Healing and Partnership Consultant
In this post, you will then see with regards to a relationship that is prevalent in which a pair gets affixed plus the anxiousness within the amount of closeness and distance drives both the pursuer ( love addict) as well as the distancer ( love avoidant).
a common and cycle that is predictable ignited. It is really an bad accessory partnership pattern I call the prefer Addiction period.
Since you’ll find out, this routine shows how the love addict and avoidant begin and how they progress through their connection. It’s an bad, poisonous cycle that entails a distressful ‘push-pull party’ saturated in emotional heights blended with numerous lows, where Love Addict is on the chase plus the prefer Avoidant belongs to the work.
The exciting “high’s” for love addicts happen to be visibly popular at the beginning of a addictive union.
simply because this relationship that is addictive progresses, anxiousness during the level of closeness or long distance powers both the pursuer ( really love addict) and distancer (avoidant) inside a ‘crazy-making, yo-yo dance’– in the end, resulting in both business partners feeling troubled, disheartened, and miserable when you look at the connection, particularly when the love addict enters love withdrawal. [Read more...]