Tell Me About It: вЂShe even seems to obtain anxious once I go homeward to visit my moms and dads’
Concern: i have already been dating my girlfriend for half a year now but i will be unhappy with just how untrusting of me this woman is. She constantly checks where I am going, who i will be with and I also have actually noticed of late that she picks up my phone to check on in on my communications and calls. She also appears to get anxious once I go homeward to go to my parents, again looking into who we am fulfilling in my own house city and small trivial things.
I don’t understand how to deal with it or if I am doing just the right thing to laugh all of it off, but inside I am getting ultimately more and much more unnerved by it. I really though I feel she is keeping a lot from me like her and have some idea of her past. She says she eventually found out, she felt violated and betrayed that she had a boyfriend previously who hid his (huge) porn use and when. She did not tell anybody for this she would sound prudish and insane as she thought.
For her and I am sympathetic, I now think that there is more to this and that she has something more fundamental, like an anxiety thing going on, and I think I see this pattern in her family too – they are always very worried and have catastrophic thinking about everything while I know this is an issue. [Read more...]