Just as unpleasant as it isaˆ”and just as back the way it seemsaˆ”there is a type of experience in which someone rests with a man hoping that intercourse will motivate an even more steady relationship, and she actually is unhappy once it doesnaˆ™t manage. Maybe itaˆ™s a pattern that started in college or perhaps even university: A girl that can feel curiosity from a man rests with him or her because she feels like itaˆ™s only the beginning. She remembers precisely what the guy said before sexaˆ”that he was into their, discovered the appealing, preferred heraˆ”so she actually is upbeat that a connection grows out-of a night of intercourse.
As you can imagine, there are certainly people which have sexual intercourse quickly nevertheless function toward developing a meaningful, romantic relationship afterwards. But in the practice, I’ve come across and read both sidesaˆ”the womanaˆ™s disappointment any time no romance materializes, plus the manaˆ™s waning desire whenever love starts rapidly for the dating processaˆ”and the other way around, needless to say. [Read more...]