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His only advice/admonishment as he and his wife left was “Don let Mike in.” (Mike, I knew from previous discussions with Mom was the son of the boss from a prior marriage, was some 15 years older than the kids I was caring for, and was allegedly a druggie and other bad things.) Anyway, two of the kids I was minding were pre teens and had no knowledge of the “ball falling” at midnight, so I told them that if they behaved I let them stay up until midnight (slightly past their regular bedtime, but what the heck) to watch the New Year ring in. One of the kids dozed off on the couch but the other one stayed awake to watch the ball fall and was very excited by the whole thing, but then fell asleep on the sofa shortly afterward. Around 12:30AM the front door burst open (I locked the apparently flimsy deadbolt and had also used the chain lock thingie, but when this person pushed the door open a huge chunk of the molding that the chain lock was attached to just wrenched away from the wall and dangled from the chain.
Put it this way after using the Dark Vanilla candle, I have postponed cooking until the smell goes away. It is that fantastic. My apartment smells like an adult sugar cookie. The tub didn’t come in a box or a plastic bag or anything at all. It didn’t leak dog dildo, and the lid was on tight so there were no problems with that, thank goodness! I’d prefer that they at least put this in a bag in case of some sort of accident. The packaging is discreet and looks pretty.
By the way, I hear you saying you’re not traumatised and at the same time frustrated that you are ‘bothered’ by what happened. ‘bothered’ still matters as far as I’m concerned, and might even be a much better description of what many people feel when trying to process reflections on difficult experiences from earlier adolescence. Trauma on the other hand can sound permanent and extreme, which can make things hard if you consider it a prerequisite for getting support.
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The problem is, I get almost no pleasure from any type of sexual contact. I don’t really feel anything when my partner touches my genitals or breasts. I can become aroused and want sex by just heavy petting, kissing, making out, etc., but after we go further, I feel myself wanting to stop because I know nothing good will come of it for me.
Well, i think you already know that it isn’t likely a relationship will come of it . Right? So you can either be up front w/ him and tell him you have feelings for him, or ignore it and continue on as if nothing happened. Were it me, I think i would just ‘let sleeping dogs lie’.
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We also sometimes engage in Ravishment Play. I refuse to call them “rape” fantasies because no woman wants to be raped. Ravishment is the outward manifestation of a fantasy where someone wants to feel like they aren in control, but in reality are in complete control.
It runs on 2 AAA batteries. The plastic part comes apart revealing the battery compartment. It does have an O ring and the box claims it is waterproof. I was in something extremely skimpy, and my husband was au naturel. They turned beet red and walked right back out the door. We laughed our asses off.
I never cared about what people have said about me behind my back. Ive been called a whore, slut dildo, tease and everything else. Ive been called all that despite having one steady bf throughout high school and he took my virginity. Like she used to give one of our coworkers a ride home, and I witnessed this coworker on multiple occasions offer gas money, pay for her lunch, etc as a thank you. She always declined with “I going that way anyway :)”, until one day coworker pissed her off so she ran around telling everyone that coworker was a mooch and never once paid gas money. Everything she did was transactional, nothing was altruistic.