– The “fixer” is desperate to do anything to simply help the “fixee”. The fixee becomes influenced by the fixer to solve their dilemmas.
– The fixee does not place effort into enhancing by themselves, on their own. They could make short-term modifications but will return straight straight back. They feel insecure due to it. They feel more serious about by themselves and away from defensiveness may blame the fixer with regards to their struggles that are continued.
– The fixer gets frustrated during the not enough progress since they worry. They might have the fixee is not as committed to their very own enhancement in order to find that to be selfish. [Read more...]